KNOWING OURSELVES

KNOWING OURSELVES
This book can be of great value for those who want to take the path of responsibility in their lives, who want to take the first step toward freedom and self knowledge, using the topic of disease in humans as a guide. Its purpose is to help the sick person to find health status, based primarily on what happens within us. Because even if we can find help abroad (psychologists, doctors, gurus, etc.) the only ones who are able to heal us are ourselves. A book dedicated to physical, emotional and spiritual health.

Monday, 30 January 2017

OTITIS (Earache), Emotional and metaphysical causes:


The Otitis is an inflammation of the ear, usually due to an infectious cause. An aggressive conflict, anger. I wish not to listen or obey.
In children especially when they do not want to hear any more how their parents fight or they do not support the tendency to squeal with any of them or when they are sick of hearing criticism, recriminations and reprimands adults.
In young children it manifests when they want to catch a toy, but they are not allowed; They do nothing but hear no! do not!
Exudative serous otitis: It is the presence of thick or sticky fluid behind the eardrum in the middle ear, but there is no ear infection. This is very common in winter or early spring, but can occur at any time of year. It can affect people of any age, although it occurs most often in children under 2 years. Unlike children with an ear infection, children with serous otitis not act as sick. Often, this ear condition has no clear symptoms. Older children and adults often complain of a feeling of fullness in the ear. Young children can surprise them because they try to turn up the television volume due to hearing loss.
The ear is covered to reduce hearing.
"I do not want to hear".

"I do not want to hear, I want to return to my mother's womb, the amniotic fluid, aqueous recover those noises”



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Friday, 27 January 2017

ENDOMETRIOSIS, Emotional and metaphysical causes:


It is a gynaecological condition characterized by an abnormal presence of uterine lining in places in the body where it should not be, for example, in the vagina, the fallopian tubes, in the abdominal cavity, urinary bladder.
When the endometriosis affects the bladder, it translates a conflict between her mother and her partner. He does not support her and prevents that she frequents home. Although she wants a child to please her mother, cannot have it at home, because her mother is banned and that is why, that the lining of the uterus moves to the bladder, the organ that serves to mark the territory.
"I really want to be pregnant, but I cannot accept the child in place that should, so I stay outside (the home is out, the family is disintegrated).
Impression that the house is not ours. "I'm not at home". "I am excluded from the house”
Endometriosis can also occur in women who even want a child, I cannot conceive because unconsciously they fear the consequences of childbirth (suffer greatly or die), or perhaps because they fear the child to break the harmony of the couple, or for fear in relation to the world as it is and the uncertainties of the future.
Many women suffering endometriosis have maintained a tense, difficult, painful emotional relationship and sometimes even violent with her own mother.
It is the mothers who invade the life of their daughter, who lack emotional capacity and constantly criticize and offend. As a result of this complicated relationship, women tend to physically harden and develop a masculine attitude in life, as the inclination to force things, to want to control everything, to maintain power relations or to be loaded in excess of activities.
Recommendations to recover physical, emotional and spiritual health:...


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Monday, 23 January 2017

FEET disorders, Emotional and Metaphysical Causes:


They are the support on which we settle our foothold on the ground, the foundation upon which our body is held to stand, to move, to go forward. They are our contact with the earth (Mother Earth), with life, with others.
The feet, therefore, affirm and recognize represent our positions and the criteria that governs our lives, our ideals and our convictions.
Symbolizing the official role we play, our attitudes, our support in relationships, especially often linked to the mother who cares for us and that nourishes us and to our roots. Finally, they are also a symbol of freedom because they allow us movement.
The feet show us how to go through life:
Some big feet indicate a person who in childhood was very attached to his/her mother. You may have a tendency to materialism.
By contrast, small feet indicate that he/she found support in paternal and individuals may be attracted to the intellectual and spiritual.
Some flat feet correspond to a person who seeks the affection of the mother, when I am a child I do not want to leave my mother, I need to merge, I seek contact with my mother, I need more contact with her or "I feel oppressed by my mother and I submit myself because I cannot escape, I let myself do. "
"I prevent detach and nailed me to the ground”
"I'm crushed by my mother”
Cavus Foot (with excessive plantar arch) like a person who curls up and folds back on himself/herself thus expressing their need for autonomy in relation to the mother. "I resist the burden of my mother” "I want to leave my mother”
However, people with heavy feet are firmly rooted to the ground, security. People are reliable, consistent and realistic and little given to intellectual plane.
Hot Feet: The epitome of sweetness, synonymous with being ... People who have warm feet would have liked her mother was better, sweet, warm, more loving.
Cold feet: "My mother is cold, I do not want to touch her because contact is destabilizing”
Individuals who walk on the toes have a serious problem with the mother: "I would not want to see, I do not want to touch” At the same time have little contact with reality, not take root anywhere and are possessed of great dreams, fantasies and enormous creativity.
Walk with your feet out can be a sign of openness, extroversion; Otherwise, that is, walk with your feet facing inward, we talk about a shy person who is afraid to move, "I go, but I do not want to go".
Meanwhile those who walk by relying primarily on their heels, as if they were walking on eggs, tend to shy away from life as the stance they take are likely to be taken down easily to back.
Calluses on the feet express our need to protect our mother. "I need to protect my mother”
Plantar fasciitis: Cholera in relation to the mother or the maternal role. Repressed rage. "I have no right to express it”
Plantar pain, hardness: "I kicked in the ass for others to move. I'm sick, abandonment. "
Heel: Those forced to use their “brakes”.
Achilles tendonitis: It allows the propulsion of the body. "Devaluation in the lived present" real or symbolic, and sometimes is subjective.
The sole represents the mother, but on a symbolic level is the house where the mother is, the family home.
Calcaneal spur: Conflict of duty, lack of independence, against the mother and/or to the world.
Deeply incriminate oneself because of what one is.
"I have no right to leave home" or to leave the domain of my mother, to set foot on the ground to leave" "I wanted to leave, but I could not” "I think that I want to leave" "I cannot marry, I must look for my mother" "It is my duty, to keep my parents" "It's a habit, eating every Sunday with family and my parents” "My mother says I should look after her" "It's a tradition that I look after my brothers".
We need to free ourselves from the bonds and obligations that have been imposed to us to make our own life, and to raise a family.
Therefore, feet problems talk about the conflicts that each one has in relation to the mother, (can also be a symbolic mother, State Aids, etc.) and her position on the world. We suggest that we take or maintain positions lack reliability or security. It is characteristic of people who are afraid, who are afraid of expressing their own opinions, they do not feel good about themselves or do not accept the position held at the time.
They can also express the perception of no progress, of being stuck, spinning around the same, perhaps not knowing what attitude to take in front of a situation, "not knowing where to go".

When the tension is manifested in the right foot, then you have relationship with the feminine (or real mother) and, when present in the left foot, is related to male (or the symbolic mother).

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MYOPIA: Emotional and metaphysical causes:


View defect that only allows you to see clearly what is close and is unable to focus and perceive distant objects.
If someone has myopia, it means he/she is living with fear of approaching to danger (may be symbolic or real), a danger that the person feels that he/she comes from behind and therefore has to monitor closely, be very present.
"The danger comes from behind and do not know where”
"I must have a good eye”
The danger may be the father, mother, teacher, etc.
It usually affects those people that while trust their future, have the permanent thought that something bad can come to change their happiness and tranquillity, their present, which do enjoy.
"I have to see what's nearby, do not want to see what is far"
"Thinking about the future bothers me”
"I cannot stand that someone dear is gone away”
"I do not see what's coming”
"I flee what could happen”
When myopia, which is usually during adolescence or young adulthood occurs, it may be basically by two facts:
I feel threatened by any circumstance surrounding me.
I do not want to see (accept, tolerate, understand) what is further away.
It is normal for children and young people are afraid to face the real world, to take responsibility, to work, ultimately, to live as adults.
Strong subjectivity and introversion. "I do not see beyond his/her own nose"
The myopic sees everything from their point of view and can bother to the opinions of others, when they are different from theirs. Usually worry much about himself/herself compared to his/her concern for others, he/she lives wondering if he/she should be more sociable and caring for others, as do others.
The nearsighted can face the immediate reality and everyday life with ease, however, it is difficult to foresee new possibilities, new alternatives, conceive a vision of the future.
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Friday, 20 January 2017

UTERINE DISEASES, Emotional and Metaphysical Causes:


The uterus is a hollow muscular organ, its inner wall is lined with a spongy tissue whose mission is to contain the fertilized egg during pregnancy and expel the baby during childbirth.
There are two parts in it: At the top, the body, which leads the tubes; and at the bottom, the neck, facing the vagina.
The uterus is the seat of creativity and fertility. It is the first place that the future baby inhabits, that receives it and makes it grow, in which the mother carries the child.
Therefore, the child symbolizes the womb, gestation, the ability to have children; also the nest, the house, the family; the couple, the ability to find romance and sexuality, since this function is one of the strongest in nature.
Uterus: body mucosa (endometrium). It has its correspondence with the prostate in men. “Unusual family".
The biological function of the endometrium from conception to the end of labour, therefore, conflicts that affect this part of the uterus ranging from sexual problems such as:
-Sexual Conflict (during the event) is considered dirty, out of the ordinary.
-Loss Conflict (child or parent).
-Family Conflict (impossible nesting).
-Conflict of the grandparents related to their grandchildren.
-Loss conflict, particularly in grandmother/grandchildren relationships or similar (godchildren, neighbours, children, etc.)
-Grandmother conflict, who does not accept anything regarding grandchildren, for example, misbehaving with her partner, certain sexual behaviour, etc.
Uterus: smooth muscles.

In this part of the uterus (myometrium) are affected by conflicts of impairment for not being able to get pregnant, have a child or the desired family. "The son I never will" "I'm not able to bring a child into the world!" (After an abortion, induced or spontaneous, stillbirth, etc). I desire for an ideal pregnancy.


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Thursday, 19 January 2017

How to Be Yourself - Eckhart Tolle


CONJUNCTIVITIS OR PINK EYE, Emotional and Metaphysical Causes:


Conjunctivitis is an inflammation of the conjunctiva, the membrane that lines the back of the eyelid and the front surface of the eye. The symptoms that occur are: difficulty in opening eyes to wake up, because eyelashes stick because of a discharge; eyelid swelling and redness and swelling of the eye.
We are living or have lived an emotional conflict, thanks to which we have stopped seeing something or someone important to us. We have separated to see something or someone that interested us.
"I am separated from the eyes of that person". "I've lost sight". "I don’t see that what I like anymore” "I do not see the person I love”
If itching is present, loss of pleasure to see someone is added.
"I want to see him/her again, but that's not possible”
Or it may also indicate that we are seeing something in our lives that we do not like and we feel angry and frustrated. "Do not stand to see what you look at".
"I'm angry and frustrated with what I'm seeing” "Nobody protects me from what I see". "They look at me and make fun of me”

It is basically something that bothers us because it calls into question our authority. Someone has dared to discuss our "point of view" and we refuse absolutely to forgive him/her, that is, that you distrust the rightness of our position.


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The ring finger: Emotional and Metaphysical Causes:


The commitment. The ring finger represents my commitment, my changes. It is the finger of the union, the bond between two people. The ring marriage or union is placed on that finger.
Alliance represents, contracts, union. It relates to the signing and closing of contracts.
It also reflects moments of change in our lives, such as change of name, surname, change of home, work, etc.
It is related to the sense of sight. It represents the eyes, what we see real or symbolically. And there is some relationship with duels which we live. If someone wanted to die or something has died for us symbolically, this finger will be affected.
Tensions in this finger tell us despite our intimate life. We are suffering for something or someone. Some sentimental attachment may be about to break or, have suffered a separation. We indicate some difficulty to unite, to unify our environment, to establish an alliance.
You can also point out that something related to legal contracts not going well or that some compromise will collapse is not good for us.

You can also tell us that we want to form a couple with values, bases and different ways to how we were educated.


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Monday, 16 January 2017

OBESITY, Emotional and Metaphysical Causes:




The excessive accumulation of adipose tissue in the body is known as obesity.
Obesity and overweight are manifestations of our material and emotional insecurity.
Feeding represents the first link with life and love, that is, with the mother.
For babies, food is not only the satisfaction of a basic need, but also the opportunity to enjoy the care and love.
This feeling, this relationship is preserved forever.
So, if we feel unsafe or unloved at some point in our lives, the original instinct will drive us to restore food security.
But the food is only a substitute and not much to eat can never be satisfied and full. Dissatisfaction and emptiness inside still exist.
The problem of that one that is obese is almost always a lack of acceptance and love, spoiling his/her body for him/her and for others. It is a way of devaluing his/her image in order to say that is ugly, that is not attractive and that no one may love him/her.
It is a way of denigrating or self punishment. This self-hatred is as a result of the humiliation suffered by their parents, and especially by his/her mother, between two and three years old, at the stage of autonomy.
It is almost always a domineering, possessive mother, who exercised strict about their diet control their physiological functions, thoughts, feelings and creativity.
How should react a child to avoid being humiliated? He/she did suppress his/her feelings and creativity and started living a hidden life, reserved. He/she created a huge wall around himself/herself, a great physical strength, which feels like a prison. He/she is inside, complaining, suffering, resentful with the world and others. "Being big and strong is more reassuring than being a rebel and being recognized, located and seen by family members".
Obesity is the result of this repressive state and his/her inability to leave it, to feel free.
"I'm in jeopardy of life or death"
Recommendations to recover physical, emotional and spiritual health:
You need to learn to leave the humiliation and your creativity by yourself.
You need to dare to say "no" sometimes. What do I really want? This reflection will help a lot.
You should try to lead a fulfilling sex life, without getting influenced by beliefs contrary to nature.

You need to let life flow and take responsibility to get out of prison, to be free and to love unconditionally.



Saturday, 14 January 2017

OVARIAN disorders, Emotional and Metaphysical Causes:


They are the sex glands that secrete women female sex hormones and form eggs to be fertilized.
They represent motherhood, the desire to procreate, the vital relationship with the child, fertility, sexuality, creativity, skill in creating and femininity, by the fact of being a woman and being filled or satisfied as a woman.
When a woman has symptoms in her ovaries, it may be because she has lived or is living a situation where she has lost the basic family ties. Perhaps because her family is toxic and has been away from her. Or maybe because her father is an abuser, rapist and he has stopped talking to her. Or it may be because she is an orphan and has no mention of a familiar past, etc.
In the most serious ovaries problems, there is a difficulty with her own child, or with a family to which she is considered or treated her like a son.
Ovaries: germ cells.
Severe loss conflict. It can develop after an event in which we live the loss of a loved one. For example, the death of a son in an accident, as a result of an illness or an abortion. It may be the loss of another person, with whom I have no blood ties, but I love like a child, or perhaps you can refer to the loss of a pet, etc.
The worst that can happen to a human being, is to lose a child. The sense of loss can be experienced on a symbolic level, such as: I've lost my husband! Because he no longer pays attention to me, not talk, he is almost never home, just think of their work, etc. Therefore, I lost the man I was happy with.
Likewise, the feeling of loss can be experienced for a project she loved and which has not been carried out, it has been aborted. Example: the writer whose publication of her book, "her baby", has been frustrated or architect whose project was rejected, etc.
Ovaries: Connective tissue. Competing less serious than the conflict germ cell loss.
Conflict of loss of a possible child (abortion).
Conflict has felt belittled or hurt by a man.
Semi-genital ugly conflict, accompanied by guilt. A low blow. "Fear anticipated to lose”
Polycystic Ovary: Women "under herdomestic wolf" They are very jealous, very controlling, women with excessive responsibilities.
Weigh husbands emotionally immature.
"Seduction attracts the male" "I'm ugly, worthless and I cannot like the boys". "My boyfriend left me for another, prettier and better than me"
Right ovary has to do with the "pull" that women exercise on a man.
Left ovary is related to own "reproduction".
Some women may experience discomfort in the ovaries when they have difficulty expressing or express their creativity, in any area of ​​their lives.
Recommendations to recover physical, emotional and spiritual health:
Whatever the situation is, it is important to accept all the feelings that live in you, to express that your inner wound can heal and you can look to the future with a more positive and full of projects for performing look.
Contribute to life, to creation. Become aware that you can for yourself.
Express creativity in other directions.

You need to learn to trust men, to access your inner man.


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HYPERTHYROIDISM, Emotional and metaphysical causes:


If there is an excess production of hormones, is to go faster, to produce more thyroxine, allows us to catch the "piece" quickly. We are living a conflict of "urgency". Urgency felt the time go faster or that the term will end soon or, feel urgency of this or that fact happening now.
We have to go fast, faster!
Conflict of not being fast enough to swallow the piece: "I have to go even faster”
"I have to do this faster"
"Although it is in my mouth, I'm not sure I could swallow or spit the piece" "I cannot act fast enough" and has to do with feeling for example, that in life everything is very slow and we want to speed things up or feel that they arrived on time or going too slow and we want to get there on time.
We must hurry!
For example, a child who loves to play and his/her mother almost always spends all the time of the afternoon aware of the time.
"I have to hurry, anyway I'll get"
A public woman worker is intended to cover a spot to another province for one year, which is the time remaining for this vacant in her city of residence. This move represents the distance of her husband and the rest of her family. She was diagnosed with hyperthyroidism because all her attention was on the time passing quickly.
The person suffering from an overactive thyroid is in constant action;

Think you always have to act quickly, "we must be quick" but does not reflect to know what your own needs, so that your actions are not based on what you need and do not feel motivated.

Thursday, 12 January 2017

BLOOD disorders, Emotional and metaphysical causes:


Blood symbolizes life, it is the carrier of vital energy, joy of life that flows freely through the body. But it also represents the family, "blood ties". When we suffer some disease related to blood first thing to ask is how my relationship with my family members, with people wearing my same blood work?
Circulatory problems mean that we are not allowing life to circulate freely within us and we have difficulty expressing our joy of life, our love for life.
"Life no longer makes sense”
At the origin of this blocking almost always you can find a deep devaluation conflict with respect to any member of the family or to the family itself.
Red blood cells: They carry oxygen and carbon dioxide. Symbolize blood ties.
Polyglobulia: Increase the total volume of red blood cells.
Conflict of fear of dying for something related to blood, or lack of red blood cells. Example: because a family member died of a haemorrhage.
Hyperglobulinemia: Increased red blood cells.
"I want to give life to someone” "I want to bring more oxygen, more life".
Thalassemia: The body produces an abnormal form of haemoglobin, the protein in red blood cells that carries oxygen. The disorder results in excessive destruction of red blood cells, leading to anaemia is present.
"Wasting oxygen, life". This happens sometimes when we obsess about helping someone else.
Acanthocytosis: Presence of acanthocytes in blood (deformed red blood cells spine-shaped).
Devaluation conflict at the household level. conflict or project transgenerational sense.
Need to defend from your own family.
Conflict of being attacked within the family environment and the environment itself. Drowning in the family. "My family drowns me”
"Difficult relationship in the clan".
White blood cells: They are responsible for detecting foreign matter and they defend us.
"Lack of security within the family”
"I defend, I have the impression that I want bad”
Agranulocytosis: Conflict of impairment in self-defence.
Attacking is being attacked. If I defend myself I go worse off. Therefore, I live safe without doubling back and fight my defences away from contact with the outside.
Conflict of inability to defend itself. I cannot make out of my enemy.
Platelets: These are the blood clotting to prevent bleeding miss out on.
Increased platelets. Conflict accession attachment:
"I feel bad if I do not feel surrounded by my family”
Thrombocytopenia (platelet deficiency): decrease in the number of platelets circulating in the blood below normal levels.
It manifests after a severe family conflict, for which we are wasting too much for trying to unite, to unite the family again. "I am unable to unite the clan". "As much as I try, I cannot get attached to the family”
"I cannot get my family is integrated". "I am no longer able to fight”
"I cannot associate myself with my family” "I feel isolated in my family”
Recommendations to recover physical, emotional and spiritual health:
Life is the only truth, the only certainty and our only goal should be to let ourselves be possessed by life completely. Get carried away by it. So that it can perform is necessary to accept us as we are, we start believing in ourselves and become aware of our values, talents and abilities.
When the body, mind and heart work in profound harmony, we feel full of energy.
That energy comes from consciousness and becomes for us and for the whole world in a great delight.
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STYE, Emotional and Metaphysical Causes:


Conflict of separation and dishonour and something we have seen and made us feel dirty.
"I've seen one thing I did not like anything"
"I feel dirty for something disgusting that I had to see"
"I have problems in my marriage or with my partner"
"I saw something that made me angry"
"I just like to see things that interest me"
Eye pain, We will not see what is happening. Pain causes us what we're seeing.
Attempt to escape from life as we accept see how it is.





Monday, 9 January 2017

LUNGS DISEASE, Emotional and Metaphysical Causes:


The lungs are the main organs of respiration. In them, it is where the gas exchange between the air and the blood is performed. This is where we get the individual life, where we inhale life.
The lungs therefore have a direct relationship with life, with the desire to live and the ability to live well. Also with death as it always lives in respiratory terms: "I breathed his/her last"
They symbolize the breath of life; fear "out of breath". Contact, freedom, sharing, living space, is "choking" one.
Communication, word space.
The joy of living; sadness, sorrows of the past.
In fact, most people with lung feel a deep sadness in the soul that cannot manifest, which takes away the breath and the word.
Lung problems express our difficulty in accepting life and inspire in us, by fear, by impediments or lack of ability to react and defend ourselves from the attacks of our environment, real or imagined. They can manifest themselves in moments of sadness, despair or discouragement by, or when we feel that something or someone choking us and prevents us aspire life as we wish.
Emphysema: Decrease or total loss of elasticity of the lung alveoli. Impairment linked to lung capacity: "I can’t, I cannot breathe"
"Fear of not being able to breathe because of a disease”
"Chronic choking situation".
"Fear of being fired, losing a job”
Pleura: Protection of lungs. Fear of an attack against the chest cavity, against the lungs, for example, "very deep fear of what happens inside me” "Fear of a stroke affecting my lungs” "Fear because of a pain in the rib cage” "Fear of breast cancer that affects the lung”
Pleural effusion: I need my own references, my values.
Inflammation of the pleura: Anger, irritation.
Pneumothorax: "I need space, freedom” "Someone attacked me” "I protect the other” "I do not feel protected by my family”
Alveoli: Conflict of fear of dying. "I'm afraid to die from asphyxiation”
"I'm afraid that someone who is close to me dies".
Cancer: some events that have shown us our whole life as a complete failure have occurred.
Is it worth living to come to this?
We have felt hurt, humiliated or disappointed and feel it is not worth to live. It may also be related to concerns about a child or a very close person, someone who gave meaning to our life, we have delivered, body and soul, and that is causing us great grief.
Cancer alveoli and bronchial mucous glands:
"Conflict of fear of death, fear of suffocation archaic, visceral fear”
Bronchus "slanderous words that invade my space” "Conflict of fighting or invasion of the territory" "Fear lost as own territory”.
Fear for yourself: many spots in the lungs (in the radiographic image can be seen as a balloon release) manifest.
Fear of another person die: a single spot appears. Example: A family member has had an accident and is in a coma. Constantly he/she thinks he/she will die.
Fear of dying with suffering: several stains occur in the upper part of the lungs that are falling down conform.
Left lung micro nodules: "I need territory for my children”
Recommendations to recover physical, emotional and spiritual health.
Think: Are we afraid of making ourselves independent, free? Do we resist the challenges of life? Is there something or someone that keeps us breathing? What or who does not want to get in touch? Are we missing the will to live?
We must seek and aspire life fully aware that only we possess the power to transform our lives to access the happiness and the joy of living.
If the condition develops in the right lung, is commensurated with the symbolism of Yin (the maternal) and whether manifested in the left lung, it will be related to the symbolism of Yang (the father).




The middle finger: Emotional and Metaphysical Causes:


 It is the biggest and the strongest, complete the thumb in action taking.
It is the finger of the inner life, the inner government of things and also has strong ties to sexuality.
It is related to the power over the other, with pleasure and satisfaction to possess the other, with the degree of satisfaction in our sexual experiences.
It reflects the most primitive sexuality, the hidden sexual desires.
The problems in this finger may indicate dissatisfaction we feel for the way things happen at that level. Perhaps you had a problem of sexual type, either with your partner or, some sexual issue affects you. They may reflect difficulties in taking one's sexuality too because you seek perfection in this area because you feel rejected in privacy or guilt.

Moreover, this finger usually tells us when we're angry or upset with someone. It is related to the touch.