The excessive accumulation of adipose tissue in the body is known as obesity.
Obesity and overweight are manifestations of our material and emotional insecurity.
Feeding represents the first link with life and love, that is, with the mother.
For babies, food is not only the satisfaction of a basic need, but also the opportunity to enjoy the care and love.
This feeling, this relationship is preserved forever.
So, if we feel unsafe or unloved at some point in our lives, the original instinct will drive us to restore food security.
But the food is only a substitute and not much to eat can never be satisfied and full. Dissatisfaction and emptiness inside still exist.
The problem of that one that is obese is almost always a lack of acceptance and love, spoiling his/her body for him/her and for others. It is a way of devaluing his/her image in order to say that is ugly, that is not attractive and that no one may love him/her.
It is a way of denigrating or self punishment. This self-hatred is as a result of the humiliation suffered by their parents, and especially by his/her mother, between two and three years old, at the stage of autonomy.
It is almost always a domineering, possessive mother, who exercised strict about their diet control their physiological functions, thoughts, feelings and creativity.
How should react a child to avoid being humiliated? He/she did suppress his/her feelings and creativity and started living a hidden life, reserved. He/she created a huge wall around himself/herself, a great physical strength, which feels like a prison. He/she is inside, complaining, suffering, resentful with the world and others. "Being big and strong is more reassuring than being a rebel and being recognized, located and seen by family members".
Obesity is the result of this repressive state and his/her inability to leave it, to feel free.
"I'm in jeopardy of life or death"
Recommendations to recover physical, emotional and spiritual health:
You need to learn to leave the humiliation and your creativity by yourself.
You need to dare to say "no" sometimes. What do I really want? This reflection will help a lot.
You should try to lead a fulfilling sex life, without getting influenced by beliefs contrary to nature.
You need to let life flow and take responsibility to get out of prison, to be free and to love unconditionally.